Someone’s been sleeping in MY bed…

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So tonight I got a text from the Professor.  It’s been 3 weeks since he dropped off the surprise donuts at my house “for the kids” (of course, right after I decided to burn bridges) and 6 weeks before that when we officially ended things.  Suddenly, 9 weeks later, he texts me:

“Just thought I would say hello and hope you and your kids are doing well”. 

Yeah.  Now you care?  This couldn’t POSSIBLY have something to do with knowing that I finally went out to a party without you, had a blast and am starting to really enjoy someone else.  It couldn’t be that I FINALLY am starting to get over you and move on and NOW you are having second thoughts, could it now? :p  It’s not that you don’t like someone else infringing upon “your” territory now is it?

Men always do this.  Always.  Without fail.  Every time.  They never really go away forever….not if you had any kind of relationship with them.  It’s like they just can’t stand to see another man have what was once theirs, even if they didn’t want to keep it for themselves!

  I knew he’d wait until I did all the work on finally getting over him to make his move, I even said so in my previous blog posts. You know it’s more than just wanting to check in on me and the kids, come on!  If he cared about that he’d have done it a long time ago, when I was hurting the most.

 I texted him back “Hi.  Yeah, we are doing great, thanks”.  He said “you are welcome.  Take care of yourself”.  Boring conversation and I left it at that but what do you wanna bet that isn’t the end of it?  Just wait….

 

 

4 thoughts on “Someone’s been sleeping in MY bed…

    • It took me awhile. I had to stew on it a bit because hearing from him brings up emotions that are hard to deal with but I finally just texted that short message. I didn’t respond when he said something back or try and continue the conversation.

  1. Not surprised, and I think you hit it right on the head…it’s a possession issue, and nothing more. Stay strong!

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