Fucking the police

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So I went and saw the retired military policeman and we had a pretty good time.  Originally we were going to meet at a hotel and go out for drinks first but he ended up texting me a couple days before, saying he was going to be in town Sunday instead of Saturday and only for a few hours.  We could just meet at the truck stop. 

Normally, I wouldn’t have been especially keen on meeting and fucking a guy in his truck at a truck stop.  However, we’d met for drinks already the last time and he really did seem like someone I’d probably like.  He is nice looking, super tall (6’5”), very clean and a gentleman.  I enjoyed talking with him on our little date and thought, what the hell, why not?

He originally emailed me on the swinger site and the first time we met was only because I was going to be in his town anyway to see my fuck buddy.  He proposed that we meet up for drinks before I went to fuck him and it worked out great.  Fuck buddy was shaking his head that this guy was willing to do that, knowing I was coming to see HIM afterwards instead. After the date he DID say he was jealous that he wasn’t the one getting me that night, but he wasn’t pushy or anything.

According to his driver’s license, which he actually let me take a picture of before we had sex in his truck, he was born in 1966, so he’s actually 46, just like he said.  That makes him the oldest guy I’ve been with yet.  He’s good looking and in great shape, he says due to lifting all these metal bars he transports around on this flatbed truck. There was some mention of him possibly taking another officer job here soon.  He’s only been driving the truck about 6 months and claims I’m the only woman he’s had sex with in there yet.

The only thing that threw me for a loop was that he says that he currently lives with his daughter and grandchild when he is not driving the truck but that she is leaving to do some military work in Afghanistan for several months.  Okay, so while she’s gone his ex- wife is going to move back into his place to take care of the grandbaby.  He swears up and down they are actually divorced.  That sounds a bit suspect though, I mean, come on, seriously?  Haha  He was married for 20 years and did admit to having had an affair for the last 7 years.

His explanation of it all was that they still get along really well and have to for the kids (who are grown).  I asked wouldn’t it be awkward with them both seeing other people and he said no.  I don’t know about all that.  After I left, he texted that he’d hoped I had a good time and that I felt safe enough to delete his driver’s license photo.  Yeah right!  I copied that shit onto my computer.

Anyhow, when I arrived and pulled up next to his truck he came outside to meet me and had me step on up inside the cab.  I was wearing like 3 inch heels so a bit challenging, lol, but it was cool.  I’ve never been in a truck like that.  It was nice and clean and had a bed in the back.  He had it all set up with a tv and stereo system and everything you need on little pull out shelves, sort of like the inside of an RV.

We sat in there and talked for a while and he was telling me how much of a neat fanatic he is. He even irons his SOCKS.  LMAO.  Who does that??  Oh yeah, military guys always freaking LOVE ironing, it cracks me up! I iron NOTHING, thank you fluff cycle on the dryer.  He needs to come iron mine and my kids clothes sometime ;).  He irons his boxers too…and his handkerchiefs. 

Before we met up he had texted asking me about condoms and I said I’d feel better if he used them.  So he had a box of Trojans sitting there on the shelf when I came in.  As I suspected though, they never got touched.  He told me beforehand how careful he is about who he plays with and that he is allergic to penicillin and all kinds of meds so he can’t be getting any STD’s.  He also knows I am not on birth control and swore he didn’t want any more babies and would never cum inside me.  Still, as much as I hate the FEEL of condoms I still would have rather he worn one. 

He seemed to be emphasizing how little he plays.  He’s new to the swinger site but said he slept with one woman while her husband took pictures.  He also mentioned that he and his cousin tag team the cousin’s fiancé regularly.  Interesting…. On our first date he had mentioned that he played with two women with another guy for an extended period of time and said he has only been to one swinger party.

I’m thinking though, that how could a guy who is travelling around on this truck, with a bed in the back, NOT be playing more than that?  He says he just likes to be really selective and that he has always told these hookers at the truck stops that knock on their doors no (they call them “lizards”). 

He said he would really like to go to some parties with me sometime.  I’m thinking that could be interesting.  Not that it wouldn’t be fun, but what if we ran into the Professor?  Part of me would feel bad but really I have no obligation to him anymore. Enough about the Professor though, trying not to think about him.

Onto the sex, it was pretty darn good!   He’s more “vanilla” in the sense that he doesn’t like anything to do with tying people up or whips and chains.  Mostly that’s okay but I do think it would be fun to try handcuffs. He said maybe those but that’s about it and that he doesn’t spank a woman unless she asks him.  Boo, that takes all the fun out of it! I finally fuck a policeman and no handcuffs?  Dangit!  I didn’t comment though.  He also said he really doesn’t like to “fuck” but would rather “make love”. 

I don’t mind that at all and see myself as more on the lovemaking end of the spectrum too, but I do like a little roughness occasionally.  He said he also likes anal but wouldn’t push it.  Then he told me he likes his nipples licked and sucked on and that once when he was drunk the woman he had the affair with stuck her finger up his ass and he wasn’t opposed to that.  I’m thinking that might have been a hint, but I didn’t go there lol.  I’ve yet to do that with anyone, not that I think it’s that big of a deal.

We were kissing and got naked and he licked and sucked on my nipples before I got down on my knees and gave him a blowjob.  He had told me beforehand how much he likes eye contact so I made sure to give him a lot of that.  He kept commenting on how much he loves my green eyes.  Then he went down on me and OMG, he was pretty darn good at that!!  He made me cum a couple of times with his fingers and tongue and kept telling me how good I tasted. 😉

The setup of the bed in the back of the truck was really kind of perfect for having sex.  There were all kinds of places to put your feet or hold onto when the need arose, lmao.  We did all the normal positions, missionary, doggy, me riding him (which I always feel like is easier when you have something to hold onto and can move better), and a couple I’ve never tried before.  Like he had me lying on my side while he was on his knees on the bed and lifted up my leg and went in at an angle. He also had some little lights that I guess are supposed to be used for reading or something in the truck and he turned one right on my ass while he had me bent over the bed for awhile, lol, like a spotlight or something, too funny. 

He got a little more aggressive as the sex went on and I always enjoy that.  At first he seemed to want me to direct things and kept saying this was about me since he was going to cum no matter what.  Anyhow, lots of eye contact and kissing and he really liked that I again sucked his dick after we had been fucking awhile.  He said it really turns him on to see a woman taste her own juices.  I don’t know why guys like that so much but the Professor was the same way, lol.

We came to a stop at some point and he hadn’t cum yet, or at least that’s what he said.  He was like “I swear I didn’t cum inside you” and I’m thinking God I hope not!!  After the married man claiming he came inside me once without me knowing, I’m a tad paranoid. 

He said he had to take a break and that he could see he was going to have to stay in shape to keep up with me.  Then he was telling me how much he loves my body and how wet I was and that he couldn’t get over how passionate I am in bed and that I’d appeared shy to him at first.  Yeah, guys tend to think that but once the clothes come off the game changes!  😉

So during our little break he cuddled with me and we watched some porn.  While it was on he asked me to come sit on his face, facing forward so I could still see the TV.  So he was licking me and fingered me to an orgasm, saying he wanted to see if he could make me squirt.  That didn’t happen but it did feel really good and then I rode him reverse cowgirl for a bit before going back to missionary and then him jacking off onto my chest. 

He very nicely wiped me up with paper towels afterwards, lol and said that he was glad he wasn’t going to be able to shower for the next day while driving because he wanted to still be able to smell me.  We talked and cuddled just a little bit more before I said I needed to head back home and he walked me back to my vehicle and gave me a hug and a kiss.  He says he will be back in a week or so and would really like to see me again but not to worry he is not a stalker.  If he wants to hook up he will just text and see if I am interested.  Works for me!!   Maybe I’ll get over the Professor sooner than expected after all. 😉

20 thoughts on “Fucking the police

  1. Sounds like great sex! I’m so uptight about condoms, I just can’t get past the fear of catching something nasty. Especially when I don’t know where they’ve been 🙂 each to their own hey. Hope you get to see him again and have a repeat performance!

    • Yeah, I need to be more uptight about it. I asked him to use them but then when it was the heat of the moment and he’d been going down on me already and I was super turned on and just wanting him inside me it was hard to insist. Not to mention I just really hate the way condoms feel. I’m sensitive and they chafe. But yeah, that was a lapse in good judgment and I shouldn’t have let it slide. (pun sort of intended, heh)

  2. So I have a question…and as stupid as it may come across, it is very sincere.

    You said he is 6’5″…does height make a difference in how large a man is? I hear all these stories and I’ve always thought they must be ridiculous, but since you seem to know what you’re talking about, I thought I’d ask.

    Also, does size make a difference? And if so, how does it make a difference – for the positive or negative? I’ve had limited experience and reading your blog has made me a little curious about these things.

    • No, I really don’t think height makes a difference at all. He has an 8 inch cock but so do a couple of the other guys I play with and they are much shorter (like 5’8″). Actually, my fuck buddy has a 9 inch cock and he is about 5’8″. The guy I played with the other day that had the smallest cock I have ever had sex with was over 6 feet tall. The biggest guy I’ve ever been with was 11 1/4 inches and I’m pretty sure he was around 6 feet tall also.

      I talk a little bit about the size issue in my post Big Black Men, Is It True? https://lifeofalovergirl.wordpress.com/?s=black. I would say size makes SOME difference but that even a guy with a small cock can still work it well. I’m not really a size queen so much as you’d think, despite the fact that right now most of the guys I play with are in the 7.5-9 inch range. The guy the other night, gosh it wasn’t very big at all and it was pretty thin but he did make me almost cum with it anyway. He was angling it in ways that it hit the right spots and that’s what’s important to me.

      I admit I do prefer a fuller feeling and that the guys who have actually been able to make me cum with there cock thus far have ranged between 7.5-9 inches, but I’m also terrified of things like fisting and double penetration so I’m not one that wants to be stretched way out, lol. Even with fingers, one maybe two at most but I don’t like when a guy tries to cram 3 in there.

      Really, the bigger guys do tend to hurt from certain angles, and you end up having to have him go in more shallow or readjust. There’s been times that the fuck buddy has had to put his hand on the base of his cock so he won’t go in too deep and hurt me, it really just depends on the position though. Smaller guys it can be hard to do some positions with. Doggystyle wasn’t working out too great with the small dude the other night, lol.

      My favorite size so far is 7.5-8 inches though, if I had to pick. The Professor (who falls into that range) has said I really like it deep and from the angles he would hit it from I would cum and cum. And he was still able to go ALL the way in at times even if it hurt just a little. Same with the married guy who is 8 inches. I think there was a lot more with both of them that came into play than just the size of their cocks but they were my favorites.

  3. And you said this man is 46. Does it feel like a big age difference when you’re with him? Was the professor in your age group or older? I tend to be the most attracted to older men. The oldest man I went on a date with was 20 years older than me. For some reason, even though I’m attracted to older men, they tend to intimidate me on some level and that king of kills some of the appeal on some level. I don’t know if that even makes sense. 😦

    • He is ten years older than me and for the most part I didn’t really even think about it. He has a shaved head but a little bit of a beard and there is some gray in it but mostly I wasn’t thinking about the age difference, other than when he talked about his grandchild, lol, but then the guy I had the affair with has grandkids and he’s only a year and a half older than me.

      The Professor is two years younger than this guy. Most of the men I play with are around my age or a little bit older, though some are a few years younger…the fuck buddy just turned 29. I slept with a 23 year old last summer (gosh, maybe he was 22, can’t remember for sure) and it just felt really awkward to me. I guess I’m not cut out to be a cougar. He wanted to see me again and he is really handsome but I just couldn’t go there!

      I was out at a restaurant one time months after we had sex the first time. He was a waiter there and we ended up texting again and he was wanting to meet. I almost reconsidered then. He looked so hot, but I just couldn’t get over the awkwardness I felt with a much younger guy.

      Anyhow, I do prefer a guy to be older, if he is still attractive. The catch is that a lot of older men have let themselves go and aren’t. That said though, with an attractive older man,I admit there is a bit of a turn on just knowing this guy is much older than me too. It also feeds into my little bit of kink because I do like a man that enjoys being called Daddy in bed, lol.

  4. Thanks for the information! I always wonder if there is a big difference in women too – like if one woman’s vagina can feel or look completely different than another woman’s vagina. I suspect from what I’ve read they would only vary slightly, but when you read blogs by men it sounds like there can be quite a bit of difference.

    I read the post you linked to about black men, and I’ve heard vagina size linked to different races too. One has to wonder if it’s based in any fact and, if not, how the stereotypes get started.

    • I can tell you with a great degree of certainty, Cecelia, that vagina’s aren’t universal except all women have one (far as I know); after that, all bets are off. They don’t all look the same nor do they feel the same, just like I know some women are “built small” while others aren’t.

      The stereotypes have been around like forever and they just never seem to go away even though you’d think we’d know better by now, huh? Like, when I was growing up, I was told that Oriental women’s slits didn’t run up and down – they were horizontal! I didn’t and couldn’t believe that… but you’d be surprised how many people did believe that physical impossibility.

      • Yeah, don’t they? What’s funny is that the first time I made love to an Oriental woman, that stupid stereotype popped right into my head even though I knew it had to be bullshit.

      • kdaddy,

        You have confirmed what I’ve read from other men. When I read medical-type articles they always reassure you that everyone is basically the same, but most men seem to hold a much different opinion.

        Unfortunately, it can be just one more thing for women to feel unsure and insecure about. 😦

        What do you think it is that makes the difference? Why would one woman be smaller than the next? And I would assume smaller is better than larger when it comes to sensation for the man? Is that a smaller stature woman has a smaller vagina? Apparently a smaller stature in men does not correlate with or ensure a small penis…I wonder why it would be different with women?

        Also, is there a difference between being “small” and being “tight” down there?

        Just curious. Obviously 🙂

      • “Basically” the same but not at the same time. If I remember correctly, some of the differences has to do with pelvic structure, and the actual shape of the woman’s vaginal vault; whether the woman gave birth vaginally (and the number of times she has), if she exercises, body fat or the lack thereof and just plain old genetics. I don’t think that height has a lot to do with it; my poly wife #2 was a tad bit shorter than I am – but heavier – and she was built small (she’s the one who taught me that phrase); I could insert my middle finger all the way into her and touch her cervix easily – but I couldn’t do that with my wife who was much shorter than PW#2. Likewise, I’ve often thought that the position a woman is in during sex could have something to do with it as well…

        Smaller Isn’t better (especially for her) but most men say that the tighter she is, the better; it’s all about the muscles of the vagina and especially in that first inch inside her; some women are just naturally tight despite having had children while other women have to do kegels to tighten up that muscle grouping.

        The science of a woman’s vagina is pretty interesting…

    • Yeah, I really don’t know. I wouldn’t know much about how other vaginas feel on the inside, lol. I’ve only seen two other women’s up close and personal and I would say they differed for sure! One was more of an “innie” and the other was more of an “outie” thinking in bellybutton terms, haha.

      Guys are always telling me how wet I always am and it makes me wonder if other women are less so or they just say that or what? The Officer made some comment about how I didn’t even get dry at all and I’m thinking am I supposed to? LOL Then there is the tightness factor. Guys were always telling me how tight I was before having kids and surprisingly enough they still say that sometimes now. I’m thinking there is no way it can be AS tight as it was pre-kids but I guess it’s good enough! :p

      I think certain racial characteristics probably lead people to believe that say, Asian women are smaller because they are in general more petite. Still you can never really make blanket statements about such a large group of people. There will always be those who don’t fit the mold.

      • Haha 🙂

        I’ve seen different vaginas via porn and I haven’t noticed a vast variation in how they look, other than what you reference being innie/outies. Most of the vaginas I’ve seen in porn seem to be more “outie” making it seem somewhat standard in women. TMI alert, but I’m definitely an innie and was a bit surprised the first time I saw porn and a woman who was not.

        I’ve also heard that about Asian women and smaller women, and I asked kdaddy about this in the above comment, as I’m wondering if he’s had any direct experience. 🙂

        It must be wonderful to receive such positive validation from men about your body; it sounds like they really enjoy themselves and have no complaints! 🙂

        I’ve only been with one person and we didn’t have sex a lot. He never commented negatively or positively, so not sure what to think. :/

  5. (@ kdaddy, May 3, 2013 at 13:59)

    Very interesting, kdaddy. I had no idea there were so many factors that could affect the way a woman’s vagina feels. One always hears so much about penis size and shape, when it seems women have a lot to be concerned about with regards to their own anatomy. It really is all very fascinating, I agree.

    Thank you for sharing your insight and expertise. 🙂

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